| Arguments Fighting Withdrawal Defiant Destructive Dishonest Abusive Sneakiness | Lethargic Hangovers Broken bones Red eyes Weight loss/gain Suicide talk | Skipping Tardiness Grades drop Attitude change Suspension People concerned | Mood swings Flat responses Extreme anger Depression Irritability Defensive | Missing or late Accidents Getting fired Work below potential Conflictive |
| Minor consumption Possession charges Getting busted Shoplifting Stealing Vandalism | Negative change in values Promiscuity Seductive dress, talk, behavior STDs | Distracted Memory loss Lack of motivation Lowered attention span | Negative change in friends Won’t explain coming & going, phone calls Dropping activities | Hopeless “I don’t care” Extreme self-centeredness |